Am I Queer Enough?

Am I Queer Enough?

It's a question I have been playing with for years. When I'm in a very binary/straight environment I feel queer, and when I'm in a non-binary/queer welcoming space, I'm worried about being perceived as an unwelcomed guest. I may generally look like your average...

When you are missing Touch and Connection

When you are missing Touch and Connection

Touch helps releasing stress. But we're in lockdown now, and many of us have a high amount of stress coming in, and little to no touch. What to do? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pSpU3uxqqyI&t=5s

(Poem #21) The Altar of Life

(Poem #21) The Altar of Life

So. Here we are. Sitting down in front of the altar of life. The sacred herbs of devotion burning, leaving traces of smoke circling around our faces. The scent intense. This is what it all come down to. Witnessing the unknown unfolding, taking in all the sensations....

Nettles and Kundalini (eat & play!)

Nettles and Kundalini (eat & play!)

I love plants. Plants can be amazing, also for intimacy! The stinging nettle is wonderful to play with - ánd healthy. You can eat it and make tea with it - but it's also looooots of fun in kinky play (solo or partnered). So social distancing or not, go get some...

Everything Changes

Everything Changes

Everything changes. Somehow, as I'm getting older and have experienced more changes in my life, this reality is touching me deeper. Where I'm walking is a patch of land that was a field after it was something wilder. Then it got the purpose 'building land', and...

#thankyouplantmedicine

#thankyouplantmedicine

#thankyouplantmedicine I have always felt a strong calling in my soul to connect with plants. From wanting to become a forester at age four, to studying forest and nature conservation and traveling the world to be in amazing forests. I still do that. I have always had...

How to Stay Sane in Relationships – with Jamie Catto

How to Stay Sane in Relationships – with Jamie Catto

I love talking with my dear friend Jamie Catto. Sometimes we record our sessions to be able to share them with you. Does the name Jamie Catto ring a bell? Jamie is an amazing musician (co-founding the legendary band Faithless and nowadays still bringing amazing...

It’s Time to Debunk some Myths about Personal Growth

It’s Time to Debunk some Myths about Personal Growth

There are some myths going around in the personal growth and conscious workshop scene. Not just amongst participants, but amongst teachers too. Let me debunk a few. Note: this is my personal experience. Not double referenced scientific research. ❧ Magic happens...

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