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About me

Hi! My name is Wilrieke Sophia.

I believe we all deserve a life where intimacy flows freely and in all forms and flavors: love, sex, friendship – from mild to wild and everything in between. I believe we all deserve to be educated in the boundaries and desires that we have, and safe places where we can practice expressing them. Places where we learn to differentiate between conditioning (how people say we should behave) and our values (how we desire to behave).

It’s my passion to create those spaces for you to explore. Besides that, I’m also a passionate herbalist, TEDx speaker, and mother of three daughters.


Learn about your desires today!

Did you grow up feeling too much?

Not feeling (good) enough?

Let me teach you the mantra that reprogrammed my mind, and helped me feel precisely enough.


Our Blog

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Am I Queer Enough?

Am I Queer Enough?

It's a question I have been playing with for years. When I'm in a very binary/straight environment I feel queer, and when I'm in a non-binary/queer welcoming space, I'm worried about being perceived as an unwelcomed guest. I may generally look like your average...

When you are missing Touch and Connection

When you are missing Touch and Connection

Touch helps releasing stress. But we're in lockdown now, and many of us have a high amount of stress coming in, and little to no touch. What to do? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pSpU3uxqqyI&t=5s

(Poem #21) The Altar of Life

(Poem #21) The Altar of Life

So. Here we are. Sitting down in front of the altar of life. The sacred herbs of devotion burning, leaving traces of smoke circling around our faces. The scent intense. This is what it all come down to. Witnessing the unknown unfolding, taking in all the sensations....


What People Are Saying

Wilrieke has a rare talent for truly embodied teaching. Her beautiful body, loving heart, and sharp mind align as she creates magical safe havens where participants can explore every light and dark corner of themselves. Wilrieke doesn’t pretend to know it all. Still, she is crystal clear in the way she guides people on their own journey towards self-realization.”


Wilrieke radiates trust and confidence in her workshops, making them a warm, safe place to look as deep inside as you feel comfortable with, and not one step beyond. Her experience, empathy and excellent organisational skills make her workshops the fertile ground for personal insight, growth, fun, and maybe above all that warm human connection also known as love.”


“Wilrieke creates a combination of feelings/emotions that I had never experienced in the outside world prior to stepping into one of her workshops. It’s the tantalizing combo of excitement, acceptance and absolute safety. For someone who had a hard time owning my own desires and communicating my boundaries, the ability to explore in a world where I am loved and accepted is life changing.”



Explore our events:

Navigating Intimacy

Tuning in to your Navigation System for Empowered, Confident, and Abundant Intimate Experiences.

Kinky Tantra

Adding Spice, Presence, and Depth to all your Relationships

Tantric Play Parties

Playing with Sensuality and Erotic Innocense in the Space where Pleasure meets Depth

Cuddle Workshops

Discover the Joy and Pleasure of non-erotic Touch. Practice your Boundaries and Desires in a safer space.


An Immersion into Shamanism, Ritual, and Play.

Co-creations with the World's Best

Explore co-creations with the best intimacy teachers in the world: Reid Mihalko, Monique Darling, Jamie Catto, Laurie Handlers, Seani Love, and several others.

Working with me one on one

Customized Personal Guidance

For some people creating a life filled with abundant intimacy in many forms is easy. For others there are roadblocks. Whether they are in the form of conditioning, fear, lack of resources or insecurity, experiencing scarcity when it comes to intimacy influences your life in an unwelcome way. I offer coaching and mentoring for those who want to commit to a deep process of self realization

Having ran a succesfull and profitable business for years now, I also offer my services to those who want to set up their own business in the field of intimacy.

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