Weekends & Retreats

Besides workshops, I also facilitate, co-facilitate and organize for and with the most inspiring teachers I know. Here you find an overview of upcoming retreats:

Kinky Tantra Intensive (Incl. Puja Ritual and Play Party XL)

➤ September 20-22, Utrecht (NL)

Do you want to:
➸ increase your communication skills in your (future) relationships?
➸ become more present, authentic and able to hold space for another person?
➸ add juice to your present and future relationships?
➸ learn what polarity means, and how it adds quality, sexy and depth to any relationship?
➸ learn some new & cool skills, whether this is using toys and tools, or how something as simple as breath can increase pleasure?
➸ spend time with an amazing group of like-minded people in an urban temple in Amsterdam?

This is the Kinky Tantra Intensive, a weekend of exploring Tantra and Kink in an intuitive way. You will learn how the practices of Tantra and Kink are no opposites, but complementary pathways that can increase each others depth and effect.

A weekend of exploring Tantra and Kink in a conscious, intuitive (some might say Shamanic) way with the intention of personal growth and empowerment.

This weekend is designed as a full-on deep-dive into the world of Kinky Tantra. Check out the event pages for a full description of the weekend:

>> Kinky Tantra Intensive September 20-22, Utrecht (NL)

16 Days with Monique Darling, Peter Petersen & Wilrieke Sophia

➤ April 12 – 28, Amsterdam (NL)

I’m so thrilled that the amazing teachers Peter Petersen and Monique darling are coming back to The Netherlands! Spread over 16 days we will offer you an amazing palate of yummy workshops:

We’ve met each other almost 2 years ago for the first time, and immediately fell in love with each other, ánd each other’s work. We’re Intimacy Activists: people who pour their heart and soul into spreading love over this world.

Together, we have reached thousands and thousands of people, and fascilitated probably over a 1.000 workshops.

🔥 Can you imagine what happens when we join forces? 🔥

The first workshops we co-fascilitated in 2018 have been magical, and we desire more!


12 April, Friday, 19:30 – 22:30, Amsterdam: Cuddle Party meets Cuddle Workshop!
Both Cuddle Parties and Cuddle Workshops have become famous. Now, for the FIRST TIME EVER, we are co-creating a workshop!

13 April, Saturday, 10:00 – 18:00h, Amsterdam: All Day Afternoon Delight Play Party
The popular XL Play party – by daylight! Come with prior experience to this all day, all including event.

14 April, Sunday, 14:00 – 17:30h (afternoon), Amsterdam: Tantric Puja – The Art of Devotion
Join us for sacred exploration of this force in a fun environment! This get-together will include extremely powerful boundary-setting practices, then exercises to help us bond, practice surrender, and play like children.

14 April, Sunday, 19:00 – 22:30h (evening), Amsterdam: Tantra for Empaths and Energy Sensitive People
Tonight is all about exploring Tantra from a highly sensitive, energy sensitive, or empath perspective. This event is for anyone who’s been told “you are too much” been shamed for crying or being overly emotional, if you’ve ever been told to “grow a thick skin,” here is an evening for you!

19 – 21 April, Tantra Festival Amsterdam
A whole weekend of workshops, live music and healing, created by our dear friends Elfriede Van Der Sanden & Rakesh Mijling

26 April, Friday 14.00 – 17.30h, Amsterdam: Erotic Anatomy  Learn all about energy s’x, how to use your whole body to turn your lover on, and get to know your lover’s body better!

26 April, Friday, 19:30 – 22:30h, Amsterdam: S’x Magick Ritual – using the Power of Your Pleasure to Manifest Your Dreams!
In this event, we will be raising s’xual energy together. This ritual is about the abundance of our life force and allowing our s’xual energy to move naturally and amplify our intentions. The evening will be filled with demonstrations, some hands-on experiential learning and connection exercises that you can take home and impress your friends and loved ones with.

27 April, Saturday, 14:00 – 17:30h (afternoon), Amsterdam: Tantra Tools for Every Day
Join Monique Darling, Wilrieke Sophia, and Peter Petersen for an afternoon of making time for yourself, taking time to awaken, explore and inspire the sacred within, unlocking an unfathomable spirit that connects us to the entire universe.

27 April, Saturday, 19:30 – 22:30h (evening), Amsterdam: Juicy Play Party
This is an experiential play party for the sensually adventurous. This event welcomes ALL and is very gender friendly. This is an invitation to dive deeply into yourself and each other in ways you may have been afraid to do in the past. This is the play party you want to come to even if you’ve never been to a play party before. We create an expansive, feeling-full environment charged with electricity, yet warmly grounded and earthy. A safe and sacred container for exploring kisses and hugs in a relaxed, s’x-positive space. This play party encourages your curiosity about taking your own sensual play space to the next level. This afternoon is a celebration of imagination and curiosity, so you may experience as many flavors as you dare.

28 April, Sunday, 13:00 – 17:00h, Amsterdam: Tantric Massage Secrets for Couples
This is not only a massage class, but also a spiritual course. Come learn to feel, use and channel energy in your body. Tantra massage involved spiritual learnings, mind opening transformations and life changing connection with people on the deepest level. Tantra massage is also a gateway to reclaiming our bodies from shame. As we include the entire body in this loving experience of touch, we reconnect our entire self. As we receive this touch, we release layers of shame we carry around our body appearance and our true s’xual nature.

Tantra meets BDSM with Om Rupani

➤ October 11-12, Amsterdam (NL)

In this weekend journey, Om Rupani will create a permission field in which the participants can discover a greater YES for their being, their desires, their Eros. No aspect of our being has been more shunned by society, more relegated to second class status than our Eros—especially the so-called darker aspects of our Eros.

The art of Dominance & Submission / BDSM expertly plays with the darker side of our Eros. In this journey we will take the participants through solo practices of release and self-acceptance, as well as partnered exercise and SCENES in which they may give themselves permission for their desires around POWER, DOMINANCE & SUBMISSION, the giving and receiving of CONTROL and the deeper experience of SURRENDER.

We invite you to come explore and deepen your Spiritual and Er*tic journey. Integrate the various aspects of your psyche, discover new levels of turn-on in your relating and s’xing. Say YES to life, to your desires, and to your BEING.

This course is open to singles & couples and explicitly welcomes people of genders, s’xual orientation or relationship constellation.

>> Click here for more information and tickets <<

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