(Poem#14) Unconditional self love

Unconditional self love

Can I love myself, Independent of what you do? Can I embrace myself, No matter what anyone says about me? Can I open my heart again, When all I want is to run away? Can I stay humble, Without becoming insecure? Can I share about what touches me, Without playing the victim card? Can I smile at myself, through my tears? Can I see the lightness of being, Beyond the weight of the world? Can I love myself, Borderless, boundless, unconditional? Please follow and like us:

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The cosmic joke

We choose the decor that shapes our life

This life, it’s just one big joke. What we see, it’s only the decor. It’s not real. Nothing really is. Nothing. Not even the concept we call ‘I’ or ‘mine’. Even that’s a joke. One that we all believe. Until we see it through. Until we see there is a way out. That way out is by letting go. Letting go of everything: you name, your job, your status, your body – and eventually the whole concept that you believe you are. Only when you can let go of all of that, only then you will be free. What does it mean to be free? It means you have a choice. In each single moment, you can choose to open…

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What do you need love?

What do you need love?

Do you dare ask yourself what it is that you need love, independent of what others tell you? Can you stand your ground dear, independent of the consequences? Life will give you mirrors that reflect how you see yourself. The situations you find yourself in, the people you meet; they are a mere reflection of how you feel about what it is that you deserve. The ultimate challenges are your closest relationships. How are your parents treating you? How is your lover treating you? Can you see the patterns? Can you see how they love you, respect you, see you? Can you see how they frustrate you, keep you small, prevent you from doing what you want, enforce their opinion…

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On the desire for control

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Life is such a vast experience, that it’s hard to grasp. On the one hand we try to keep ourselves small. We tell each other about all the impossibilities in our days, how we can’t manage or aren’t allowed to. Making our lives small is a coping mechanism for those who can’t see the vastness and the abundance. Another coping mechanism is control. Whether it is about our own decisions or those of others, control gives us a sense of direction, of having influence on our world. But it’s false security. Nothing can ever be controlled. There is no way we can predict the course of a day, let alone of all days of all those people around us. Now…

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On following your heart’s desire

On following your heart’s desire

There’s nothing you have to do right now. There’s not a single reason for pushing yourself beyond your heart’s desires. Look around you. Look now and see what’ve already created? There will be things you believe can change. But do you see the beauty? The success? The light? We tend to be so hard, so tough. But what for? When we die, we die empty-handed. We die alone. This life, this beautiful life! This is all we have. Celebrate! Celebrate by following your heart’s desire, your inner light. Simply ask yourself: “What do I need right now? What brings me joy, peace, love?” Listen to your desires. Don’t’t worry if they are unconventional or weird, for these labels are just…

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On being who you are

On being who you are

When we are talking about who you are, we’re not talking about the being you are. You are vast, much larger than what you perceive as ‘you’. The ‘you’ as an identity is an illusion. In the web of interconnectedness you are a knot, a part of something huge – which you are also as a whole. To understand this concept, you need to look and to feel beyond the ‘you’. The body may be experienced as something with an inside and an outside. ‘Part of’ and ‘Not part of’. But your body is not a container of flesh, thoughts and experiences. Your body is the vehicle in which vastness moves. Look into another persons’ eyes and feel how you…

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Is hiding true safety?

This morning I had this vision. My deepest inner core, you might call it the center of my heart, was surrounded by a thick crust. Some of the amazing colours of the light within the core came peaking through, but most of it was locked away. I tried to connect to that inner core, to try and reach beyond that crust. And it terrified me. If that crust would break, what would happen? Isn’t the crust the foundation that is keeping the core together? That crust is a thick layer of fears and beliefs. The deepest layers are voices that tell me I’m not good enough. That I’m unlovable. That I’m fake. That I’m unlikable. That I’m too much. Unwanted.…

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On healing each other

How can you help others to heal when you focus on only one person and exclude everyone else? Open your mind, your arms, your heart and your belly for love. The pure act of opening is healing your self and the world. When you worry about your loved one(s) being with others Realize they are helping the others to heal. These others help your loved one(s) to heal. Being more heal they can help you to become more heal. So you can help others to become more heal. Together we heal everybody our selves and the world. Please follow and like us:

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On Loving and Feeling Loved

On loving and feeling loved

My love isn’t something to take from you. It’s nothing I want from you. I don’t need your love to confirm my existence. I’d rather say: “I feel love between us”, for I can only feel love resonating when we both unveil it. When we allow ourselves to not keep our love away from each other, but to ler it flow. Where my love meets your love the love multiplies into a glowing ball of energy enlightening you and I and all that surrounds us. More than “I feel love between us”, I prefer not to speak, and just observe the vibrating love with all my senses. Words are only needed when I’m not sure. Love isn’t something to be…

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On Feeling Alone

The dark symbolizes loneliness. The bottom of the well where you lie, curled up, with nobody around or aware of your presence. Nobody to recognize your existence. Nobody to confirm to you that you take a place in this world. This is confusion. To know the light, you have to embrace the dark. You have to recognize the dark for what it is. It is not a place of despair, sadness and cruelty caused by others upon you. It never is. Your darkness is your teacher. Loneliness is nothing but the key to what you no longer need, the bottom of the well is the passage to freedom – to heaven. What can you do when you feel like you…

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